How Missing an Employer Match Affects Couples
You've both got jobs. Both earning. The household income covers everything. Money feels fine. So neither of you has sat down to check whether both retirement contributions are actually optimized.
That assumption is where this leak hides.
Why couples are especially vulnerable to this leak
Couples tend to think about finances at the household level: total income, total expenses, are we saving enough overall? But employer match is individual. Each person's contribution rate and match terms are separate. And because household income masks individual gaps, the under-contributing partner's leak stays invisible.
A common scenario: one partner started their job and carefully set their 401(k) contribution to maximize the match. The other partner started a different job and picked the default rate without checking the match terms. The household feels fine financially, so nobody revisits it. But one partner is leaving $1,000-$2,000/year in free employer contributions uncollected.
In Australia, the compounding effect is even sneakier. Between two people who've each had 2-3 jobs, a couple might have 5 or 6 super accounts. Each charges fees. Some have duplicate insurance. The total cost of those dormant accounts could be $500-$800/year across the household, quietly draining balances that neither partner is watching.
What this actually looks like
You're reviewing finances together for the first time in a while. Partner A contributes 6% to their 401(k) and gets the full employer match of 50% up to 6%. Partner B contributes 2%, the default from when they started. Their employer also matches 50% up to 6%. Partner B is collecting $600/year in matching when they could be getting $1,800/year.
That's $1,200/year in free money the household isn't collecting. Over 10 years, with compound growth, that gap is a meaningful part of one partner's retirement balance.
What to do about it
The Leak Ladder puts employer match at rung three. For couples, this means both partners checking their individual contribution rates and match terms. It takes one conversation and two logins.
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